ok, i want to know how do you find out if a guy likes you? i know of a shy guys and i think he is weird but i am not sure if its because he is shy or what. i can't tell if he likes me and i want to find out if this shy boy likes me or not so i can tell him. shy boys are very difficult to deal with and if he doesn't tell me he likes me, i think i am going to have to take the first step.