Respect

There is a reason why I have trust as the number one on this list. Showing girls respect is the key to their trust.

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Trustworthiness

You are only worth as your trust. Show her she can trust you. Just beware that trust doesn't come cheap. You cannot ask a girl to give you trust. Its not that easy. You must earn it. If you really care for her, You will achieve it.Copy of this text, distribution or modification is prohibited. Copyright http://www.wallpaperama.com

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Educated

Show a girl you are smart is essential if not the reason why a woman will chose you instead of another guy.

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Humility

Humbleness is key to showing a woman you are strong. Being humble doesn't have to mean you are weak. Confidence is the key here. This shows the girl you like that you are a positive and confident man. When describing yourself to a girl, never use the word 'boy' to describe yourself, use instead the word man. Well, of course if you are 12 years old or younger then don't describe yourself as a man, if you are younger than 12, instead of using man, use the word 'guy' BUT NEVER THE WORD 'BOY' - Using the word boy, shows her you are immature.

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Caring

Don't be afraid to open your feelings. Many guys are really bad at this. They think by opening themselves they will look weak. Listen, I am a guy too, and I don't like exposing my weaknesses to anyone. But when it comes to women, they love it.

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Family Oriented

If you come from a big family, you have nothing to worry about. Girls love to see their guy with family. It shows responsibility and human kindness. It might also be embedded in their self being seeing a guy with their family because it shows as strength for any future as a mother herself. This is an inherited pr imitative trait in women. However, if you come from a small family, another way to impress a girl is by showing her you have friends. This shows women you are a social and confident person.

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Maturity

And finally Maturity. Show her you are a mature person. They say women mature faster than men. This is true. I has been proven to be a fact. Women mature faster as they have greater responsibility within the family structure.

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Me - whats your name?
Maria - Maria

* Here, the conversation starts very simple. Keep it simple.

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Me - Nice to meet you Maria. My name is Alex. How are you doing today?
Maria - I am doing good. hbu?

Now that I know her name, I need to keep the conversation going. Ask her how is she doing. Most of the time, a girl will always nice good, fine, nothing exciting. This is an opportunity for you to show you are a positive person. If you are texting her. SPELLING AND PUNCTUATION IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT! So make sure you spell check everything and you use good punctuation like commas, periods and question marks. Notice the 'hbu' - gbu stands for 'How About You' if you are an older guy, and you are trying to impress a young woman, abbreviation is the way young people talk to each other. So you better know your abbreviation. Some examples are: idk, idc, lmao, and of course, LOL!! If you have any others that you think might be important, please leave them in the comments section below. I recommend you don't use abbreviations. Use concise full sentences, you will look immature. If she wants to use abbreviations, let her do it.

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Me - I am doing great, thanks.
Maria - So Tell me about you.

Notice I used the word 'great'. Whatever you do, you always use a positive word to describe how you are doing. Even if you are having a crappy day, always have a positive attitude. Use words like:
- great
- fantastic!
- I am awesome

don't use these words:
- good
- OK
- fine
- alright

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Me - For the most part I am a quiet guy. I don't open up right away, I do tend to give my trust to people when I first meet them, but I take my trust away once they betray me. I like giving people the benefit of doubt - we are all good people. There are some people who will not trust you right away, instead, they you will have to earn their trust first before they can trust you. I am ambitious, I like succeeding in my goals, I don't give up so easy. sometimes my persistence does become annoying. My motivation is my mother. She is a strong woman. She raised me up as a single mother. I lover her a lot. I work full time and go to school part time. I love exploring new places, specifically, places I have never been to. My favorite food is Italian food and I know how to cook a really good lasagna.
Maria - That's very interesting. What do you look for in a girl?

This is the moment we've been waiting for and the reason why you have invested so much time in reading my article about how to describe yourself to a girl. So pay attentions to what she says.

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Me - I like a smart girl, someone who will always have something up her sleeves, to teach me something I don't know. I am very easily impressed. I don't get mad very easy, I have lots of patience, but I do get get tired eventually. Just like any other guy, I like women, I like talking about romance, but not just with anyone. once I do feel comfortable with someone, I do talk openly , and sometimes if the girl is not mature enough, she will get annoyed. You can tell when a girl is mature. I do cry sometimes when I watch sensitive movies. but I am not a wimp. I am just sentimental when it comes to suffering from other people or animals. I love animals and I do my best to be a good person. I do give homeless change money when they ask for, I don't think its up to me to judge whether they need it for booze or food, if I have change in my pocket, I will give. some people judge my kindness for stupidity and often they will try to get advantage, but as long I do good, in the long run, goodness will balance itself out.. One thing I've come to accept in life that no matter who it is, a person will always disappoint you at one time or another. the important thing to do is to find a way to work it out. We are not perfect, we make mistakes and as long we learn from our mistakes, we can work it out... hahaha, I never put much thought into this... but there's more about me, since you showed you are interested in knowing me more.. How about you. Tell me about yourself, and don't write like one sentence. Search within your heart and tell me what kind of person you are. don't be modest, I never judge, I only listen...
Maria - I like animals tool. I have a pet hamster. His name is Pete.

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As you can see from the previous conversation, you can tell I got her attention with all the things I told her about myself. That is the goal. Keep her interested in you. If she is interested, its your opportunity to know you. There are times when you and the girl you are not compatible. You have to accept it. The worst thing you can do, is become obsess and keep bothering her. However, don't give up too easy either. The rule of thumb for me, I make three attempts, if she pushes me or rejects me more than three times, than I let it go and move on. Don't be afraid of rejections. Its OK to be rejected. Apply this as part of your strengths.

I hope you learned from my example conversation. The worst thing you can do is copy and paste my explanation. I wrote this article a while ago, and I have seen my example conversation show up on many profiles. For example, if you google any part of the conversation from the previous slide, you will see many profiles from POF show up. Be original and unique, if you really like this girl, put some effort into it. it will reward you at the end.

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