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edward
Wed Nov 26, 2008
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If you are reading this post its probably because like me, you are also married and wanting to stop cheating on your wife. The first step is to accept your unfaithfulness which leads you to stop. To stop cheating is very easy if you want. But, alone cannot do it. I have tried to stop cheating on my wife on my own, but have failed. Now with the use of the internet, it's easy for married men to find women who are willing to have relationships or casual fun . Every time I cheated on my wife with another woman I would come home feeling guilty, then after a couple of weeks, the guilt would go away and I start wanting to do it again. so I continued this cycle. Over and over again. I truly wanted to stop. I didn't want to risk hurting my wife because she is a good woman and I feel like such a jerk, but my emotional desires would over come any weakness I had in me for having an affair with another woman.
So what is the secret to stop cheating on your wife? Well, there is no secret. You've known it all along. Its prayer. Adultery is a sin, and to start the healing you have to recognize that what you are doing is a sin. Kneel on your knees and ask the Lord to forgive you. You will feel much better. Ask Jesus to give you strength so when you have temptations again, you will be strong and to say no to adultery. You will be tempted to do it again, but just remember how guilty you feel and how much you love your wife. Its not fair for her or your family. Dont give in into temptation. Be strong and be faithful
please tell me your story, I would like to know if anyone else is going through is and how are you handling?
Second, cheating on your significant other isn't a sin. It's just biology. We are biologically driven to partner with many different people. The problem is that this conflicts with our moral/religious codes established and reinforced by society. Just because they are established beliefs does not make them correct, but going against them can cause emotional turmoil.
From personal experience- I love the hell out of my wife. I also love other women. If society allowed me to share this information with my wife, I would. But the reality is that if I did, it would cause all kinds of emotional and marital discord. (note, if you cheat on your spouse, have a big enough conscious not to mess with their head just because you feel guilty).
I want to stay with my wife. I want to have a relationship with her. I don't want to live with another woman. I just want to date other people. Just like every other married guy out there.
We expect to get married and cut ourselves off from the opposite gender for the rest of our lives, and this simply is not realistic. It is as absurd as choosing a best friend, and not letting your best friend ever have/make any other friends. It is simply jealous behavior. To the women who have cheating husbands- talk to them about it. Do you like being around them? Are they intimate with you? Do they share the deep things in their soul with you? Then stay with them. If they are an all around ass, get the hell out. The problem with sexual fidelity isn't the sexual part, it's the concealment from your partner that hurts the relationship. Treat each other with respect, and don't hold each other to impossible standards. Life is too short. And please, learn how to spell.