Why Am I Falling In Love For A Married Guy When I Know Its Not Good

uuuugghhh, I am in the same boat. It's horrible isn't it?? Two months too. Co-worker. Although much to my relief, he found another job. yes, I was actually relieved because I couldn't focus on anything else but him and honestly it was starting to affect my job performance. Now we see each other a few times a week. Whether it is lunch or dinner or we meet at a hotel if we have 6 or 7 hours. I've tried to break it off several times. Even before he found another job. He would come in looking miserable. And I mean miserable. He would do something to try to bring me back in and let's face it he makes me feel like a million bucks. My husband of 14 years has never made me feel as my lover does. I read online that your brain is chemically altered with these feelings and therefore it's hard to give those feelings up without feeling as though your heart is ripped out of your chest. We worked together for 10 years and he confessed that he has been in love with me for some time. How did that sit with me?? Well, let's just say it came at the wrong time since I am not happy with my husband and so on and so forth. So if you find the answer let me know. He is on vacation right now with his family so contact is very limited and almost non-existent. I am trying to not email him at all unless he emails me. He's managed to do it at least 5 times a day. I love him but I have to stop. I am not asking him to leave his wife or vice versa. But we are so connected in so many ways. It's a horrible situation to be in. I hate that it started.

yess dears ur right but what we should do it is our ?

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Same boat here too, however only a couple weeks into this and I haven't slept with him yet. I'm going crazy thinking about him all the time. I want him soo bad! I don't want him to leave her either, as I am not ready to leave my husband. Kids involved ya know. Untangling 10+ years of marriage (for both of us) is no easy task. I am so nervous because I know one day I am going to feel my heart being ripped out of my chest and stomped and bled to death. This is gonna hurt soooo bad!!!!!!!

Be careful, when you get your heart broken from this it will hurt BAD!!! Like worse than a regular heart break...just saying.