I Have A Baby With A Married Man, I Have A Relationship With A Married Man

I've tried to breakup with this man for over three years...... Now I don't think he'll ever leave me alone now because I have a one year old and Iam four month pregnant with our second child I need some major help

Ermm....neva done this but willing to give it a try - mayb someone exp what i experienced or I could warn someone who's about to. Here goes:


I always thought the worst of girls that were involved with married men - syaing it was sick - and how could they? They have low self-esteem and confidence (you name it - I said it). But guess what now im in the same situation...Im 25 he's 35. I have confidence, plenty of friends, travel alot, stable family, im a party animal...and im not ugly, guys always approach me, etc you get the picture. He's an engineer and works overseas alot. He's got a son 8years old and him and the wife has been 2getha for probably 18years /-. Im not looking for symphathy or advice. I just want to tell my story. We've been dating for 1year now. And its been great...he spoils me rotten does things for me that all the other guys I've dated eva done for me. (Not that I have dated bad guys, but ya...they just seem immature to me) At first I wanted what every other mistress wanted - to leave his wife. But now I dnt think I could ever ask that from him. Cause I imagine myself in her shoes in his family shoes..

Point number one:
I never thought I'd be a mistress at the age of 25! NEVER!!!And im dissappionted that I am...but im in far too deep. Its gotten emotional.
I tried to break it off plenty a times...
Point number2:
Imagine if he leaves his wife and kid for me - his family would never accept me as im the homewrecker.
He obviously doesnt want his child to grow up in a broken home or without a father...
They built everything from scratch to what they have now - no matter how hard you try you could never break a bond of 18years while we dating just one year. Common sense.

I was also pregnant from him and had an abortion, he was with me through the whole ordeal from start to finnish. (no credits earned just mentioning the depth of the relationship.

I work, earn my own money, pay my own rent, he buys me things i dnt really need...laptops, expensive gifts, suppers dinners the works. I enjoy his company, and we get along very well.

The only thing we argue about is that he treats me like im "his" meaning that he gets jealous very quickly, doesnt wana see me with other guys, or chatting to my ex's or partying soo much...In a sense it would be nice if we had an agreement that we just have love with no emotions involved you know...He always tells me why didnt we meet before he got married...And he would have married me in a heartbeat, etc. I have been engaged twice - certainly down wanna walk down the aisle anytime soon...As i feel I didnt travel enough...lived my life fully etc.

Then why am I still with him...wish I knew the answer!

Are you still wyth the married man

Now if you are done with every thing & you already having baby dont play with that baby life let him come in this world.
regarding that person now if you are going to say some thing or going to do some thing with him you will disterb many life (that person life, His wife, Childs)batter now takecare of your child & find good person who will love you & love your baby also.

Thanks.Sorry for late reply i just read you story.
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I am in this situation with a married man. I have a 6 month old and almost 5 months pregnant with our second child. Why didn't I use birthcontrol I never thought I could get pregnant. I was married for 10 years and never had children. When my ex had two with his ex wife. I ended up pregnant a month into the affair, it was just a fling. Just left my husband. I ended up falling in love with this man dissipate knowing he was married. He kept saying he wanted to leave his wife long before we got into a relationship. We were friends first. After finding out I was pregnant he kept saying we will look for a place. But he kept dragging his feet and making excuses up as to why he couldn't do it just yet. By the time I was 5 months pregnant he finnialy made the move to look found a place we moved into it and exactly a month later he went back to his wife. Saying he wasn't sure he was the father, couldn't afford our place and the place he lived with his wife. His wife couldn't afford it by her self there son wouldn't work to help and their daughter decided to move out. After he went back I wouldn't give him the time or day. Then after he kept calling and texting saying we needed to talk about the baby. I was a fool and started seeing him again. He promised he would find us a place and he wouldn't worry about his wife making it with out him. Come to find out she wants him gone so that's the major push for him to find a place. Didn't find that out till just a few months ago after I became pregnant again. I know I'm a fool for allowing this, but I'm in love with him and he is there as much as he can be for our son, emotionally physically and financially. No court order child support. I keep allowing this to continue because I have some glimmer of hope he will leave his wife eventually and I need the help with 2 under 1. Yes I was using birthcontrol when I became pregnant with this baby I am carrying now it failed. I have put and end to the relationship for the most part. I told him I was going to stay with my parents for a while till he either gets us a place and lives there for 3 months or we will be completely done. I'm tired of feeling used. I have come to terms with the fact he will probably never leave his wife and I will be a single mother of two. I have came to that conclusion when I became pregnant with my now 6 month son. Was it wrong for me to get involved yes. Am I a bad person I don't think so. I do know my children will suffer the most, but in the end his family does except my son as a part of their family.

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