Is It Smart To Delete My Ex Boyfriend From Facebook Forever

I met a guy in a club only 2 and a half weeks ago. The night i got home he rang me and was texting me a lot. He wanted me to go out with him on the sunday but i kept trying to put it off because I've been hurt in the past and I'm only 17 and i thought the same thing might happen again so i tried to just shake him off. He really wanted to go out and all my friends said give him a chance because he was reeeaally good looking haha! So everything was good the first week and we went out almost every day. When it came to the next weekend he picked me up from a party. I was drunk and he thought it would be a good idea for me to go to his. I did sleep with him that night. I KNOW! I shouldnt have! But things were going so well I didnt think I could regret it. I also stayed at his the night after and we slept together. Everything was fine in the morning. He was in no rush to get me home and we both just spoke and he seemed to be ok. After he dropped me home i never seen him again. He was texting me but not that often. He used to phone me three times a day but didnt phone me at all. The only texts i got off him were ones asking where i was and if i was with boys. The following friday he asked me to go over his friends house for a drink but there was no way of me getting down there. LIKE AT ALL! and he wasnt willing to pick me up so i had to say no. I tried my best to get down there but there was just no way that i could. I had to stay out with my friends and that night i walked home alone. I text him telling him i was walking alone and he didnt care. He didnt even ring. I bumped in to an old friend who walked me home and i text this guy to tell him i was ok and my friend was going to walk me home and he text me back saying "I'm not surprised its a boy" this upset me so i text him saying its nothing like that he has a girlfriend. And a few hours later i had a text off him saying things wouldnt work out. My first thoughts were he's used me for love. And thats what most people would think right? He said thats not the reason he just said it wouldnt work out and he doesnt trust me. I asked him to at least speak about it with me and not over text but when i phoned him he kept repeating "dont bother" then hung up and wouldnt answer me. The next morning he sent me a text calling me a lier because my friend came home with me and i lied about being alone in the night. I told him we were on skype and i was alone but that turnd in to a huge argument and i never thought i would hear from him again. Sunday he text me asking if i had deleted him off facebook (I hadnt) i asked why but he didnt reply. Then monday i had another text and he was apologizing and said "I hope we can still speak x" I replied saying "Dont apologies. You were right things wouldnt work out you have trust issues and i love my friends even if they are boys, they're just friends. But i appreciate the apology and i'm glad there are no arguments x" I do miss him because i forget about the bad and just think about the first week i met him. But its obvious that this guy is a really bad guy. He hasnt replied to my text and i sent it out 2 days ago. He hasnt contacted me in any way. I keep going on his facebook to have a look out of curiosity and i get upset. I'm not sure if he looks on mine, but thats not why i want to delete him. His profile is private and if i delete him there will be no chance of me seeing anything that i dont want to see. But then again its a hard choice to make and i need a little push in the right direction! PLEASE HELP ME!!

WOW ! U have been exactly in the same thing i have been in... more or less ... :( Im soo sorry for you.. i really know how bad this is, especially to be cheated on ( my ex cheated on me even in a worse way ) .. All my friends tell me to delete him as well and im still insecure about it but i think i ll delete him, since i beleive that ppl lyk that just dont deserve to be part of our lives anymore, they treated us crap and obviously do not care about us as they always say.. so its better to tell em to love off and delte em from everywhere .. i wish you lots of good luck girl :( <3

my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. we had been dating for 2 years and we lived in different cities for the full 2 years. a month ago he decided to break up with me because he said he wanted space, he didn't want to try at the relationship anymore and, he said he doesnt this our relationship is fixable. I dont get it because we never fought. We argued about things such as me being jealous of him because I was in my city doing nothing and he was always out having fun, and arguments about me missing him and just wanting to see him all the time when I would go to the city he was in. I have found out that he has lied to me- he told me there wasn't another girl... but a friend of mine saw him holding hands with a girl just the other day. I know who she is and i have all of his friends, as well as her on facebook. I know i should delete him and all his friends... but everytime i try too, i just start getting this feeling in my stomach that I shouldn't. He totally broke my heart, this break up came out of no where and I didn't have a say in anything. He also used the famous line " i still want to be your friend, most of all" but he sure doesn't act like he wants to be. I have heard from his brother that he always tells him not to invite me out anywhere and not to hangout with me anymore. but his brother is one of my very good friends and i would hate to give up that friendship because of the silly breakup decsion that he has made. I don't know what to do anymore, please give me advice!!


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After a year of dating, my ex and I finally starting dating. After about 2 months he had to go to europe to see his family. When he came back, he didnt text/email/ call me at all. When I asked him to meet me he stood me up then dumped me via text me later that night. To make it worse we are in the same class for another year. He still texts me from time to time but he never acknowledges what happened.

well me & my gf been dating for 5 months we broke up not to long ago. because another girl that was trying to break us up told her what we did one night. & mind you me & my ex werent even togather. but come to find out my ex went to the girl & was asking her questions about me. she believd everything the girl said about me. some was true & some was false. but my ex never heard the full story she accused me of cheating & hurting her. i tried to hard to show her i learned from my mistake, & that imma better person but she dosent care anymore. one minute she acts like she cares another minute she acts like she dosent. i love her soo much & sometimes i miss her but othertimes i dont want anything to do with her. she hurt me plenty of times, said mean things to me, lied to me & i forgave her, but now that is me that supposdly made the mistake she dont wanna forgive me or anything. i tried to let her go & be happy for her but i just cant & it kills me. but im trying to determine weather i shuld delete her from facebook or not. im tired of checkin her statues and how shes doing i wanna move on.